Yes, there's snow.
So It's a bit late, as if you
care. No one is e-mailing me anyway. I got a total of 1 person (other than
those whom I speak to regularly) responding to Issue 6. That's rediculous.
I still don't have anything for the Your Issues section. It shouldn't matter
if this issue it late anyway. I know March is really soon, but I designed
the snow art way before this, so deal with it ;) . Even so, I'm sure it's
enjoyable. At least I didn't make the background red and the title blue,
like I was going to initally. The good news about this snow is that it
isn't cold, you don't have to shovel it, and it doesn't acumulate in the
areas that it's in. It just kind of stays there as harmless art. I hope
to get lots of e-mail. Remember you can include requests, comments, suggestions,
questions about why I'm typing this with my eyes closed — I'm tired!
See you guys later! Enjoy Issue Seven!
You see this guy - anywhere:
at school, the library, the bus, work, wherever - and you kinda like him
for whatever reason. One hugely important chunk of advice anyone can give
you is “Don’t go crazy over him!” That’s right. Don’t LET yourself fall
in LOVE with him. Don’t give into love at first sight. It will only make
you go nuts.
Observing him first for a little
while is a good idea. If you’re the more adventurous type, you can introduce
yourself, but remember to have a reason why! Look for a topic of common
interest (between the general public, or yourselves). Be open minded about
any topic that comes up. Remember why you’re doing this, too: To find out
if he’s available to you or not. If you plan on falling head over heals
for him without checking first, prepare yourself for disappointment, and
sorrow. Every time someone does that, they end up regretting that they
ever saw the person. Don’t even start looking for potential. Look for qualities
you’d look for in a friend. That will make communicating a whole lot easier.
Instead of getting all nervous to be perfect for him, you’ll be relaxed
and natural.
News Flash: No one is perfect
and you shouldn’t expect yourself to be either. You CAN make mistakes.
If you find that they don’t seem to be right for you - even as a friend,
then don’t put all the time and energy into it because it just isn’t worth
it. They’ll find their own, and you’ll find yours.
I’m going to reiterate the purpose
of this article, because it will save you so many tears: Make sure he is
available before allowing yourself to fall in love. Admiration is one thing,
but don’t let it grow unless you’re sure it should. You have control over
your feelings, not him.
So you’re chatting with a guy
that happens to be within your reach, and you seem to be getting along
fine. You might even have a few things in common. Then start
talking about sexual orientation. Well, if you're gay and he says
that he's gay too, then that's great. Then there are those who are
bi (bisexual), which aren't ideal, but hey, they still like guys
and you (usually) have just as much of a chance as you would if they were
gay.
Even though labels aren’t the best way of doing things, they make things
easier to explain. For arguement's sake, I have catgorized Bi people into
five basic groups:
Bisexual
and likes each gender equally - I would only recommend going out with
this type of person if you are pretty secure about yourself, and don't
mind him talking about girls now and then.
Bisexual
and likes girls a bit more - I do not recommend going out with
this type because they might only be looking for some fun in bed with no
intentions of a serious relationship.
Bisexual
but likes guys more - This is the most recommended "breed" of bi guy
to go out with. Although they still may be able to be attracted to
girls, for the time they go out with you, they'll probably be all yours.
Bisexual
insecure - These guys have to become comfortable with their sexuality,
as they are most probably gay, but are afraid to fully admit it to themselves,
so they call themselves Bi to seem more "normal".
Bi/curious
- Here is the flashing stop sign!!! Do NOT think you're going to
get any kind of serious relationship out of this type because they're really
only curious and don't want any more than a little experience, that is,
if they're not too afraid to try.
The positive side to each of these
types is that they won't be part of the group that discriminates against
gay people, unless they're really angry and confused with themselves.
Remember that people don't fit molds - it means that these everything in
these descriptions will be true for everyone. That's why they're
only basic categories.
Here's a poem by a friend of mine. He sent it into me hoping that i'd
post it in the next issue. Well Drew, u got your wish!
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The
Wise, Yet Dangerous Teacher
By
Drew
The
mysteries of this world amaze me,
Love
of which is the greatest,
From
Love comes the greatest teacher of humans,
So
wise, yet so dangerous.
The
wisdom of Love is unsurpassed,
It
teaches us many great things,
Through
it remarkable things emerge,
So
wise, yet so dangerous.
Love
carries with it an immense power,
Extraordinary
danger is fashioned within,
With
the ability to create or destroy,
So
wise, yet so dangerous.
Creation
and destruction, the life-blood of Love,
Creation
of an intense emotion,
Destruction
through the shatter of a heart,
So
wise, yet so dangerous.
Love
keeps itself veiled always,
But
to those few, the totality is shown,
Many
creations occur, few destructions arise,
So
wise, yet so dangerous.
Trust
in Love, now and ever,
Its
wisdom will guide you,
Its
danger will strengthen you,
So
wise, yet so dangerous.
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Here's a poem by me:
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The
Goal
By
Oreo
I
tried so hard to reach this goal
For
many years, it was all I could think of
Each
step I took brought me closer
Each
goal I reached was an illusion
and
broke me
But
I didn’t die, I grew stronger
Now,
I’ve reached my highest goal yet
and
it, too, has broken me
I
wonder if I could fix it
but
the possibility seems too slim
It
floats away off of my fingertips,
furthering
its distance.
I
suppose I'll just console myself in dessert.
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Now it's time for readers’ feedback! Tell me what you think about
the poems posted here. What are your interpretations?